Thursday, July 10, 2014
TRAINING MODULE ON PERSONALITY
DEVELOPMENT
Sponsored by
Department of Personnel & Training
Government of India
&
U.N.D.P
Prepared by
Dr.Chandra Prasad Sreedhar
&
Mr.Oommen Mathew
Institute of Management in Government
Thiruvananthapuram
FOREWORD
The influence of human personality upon the functional efficiency
of an organization and its personnel has been widely recognized. The
personality can also be modified to a certain extent. Accordingly, recent
years have seen a variety of efforts by professionals in various fields to
design courses that will help develop certain positive trends in
personality. The objective of such courses is to remove or screen out
those barriers or obstructions that stand in the way of the expression of
individual personality, through a process of training.
2. The present module on personality development is
specifically design to cater to the demands of training courses
organized for senior officers in order to improve functional efficiency.
The module covers 9 areas. It was validated in two stages, and contains
the distilled wisdom of this consultative process. When effectively
operationalised, the module should ensure that participants are given
adequate opportunity to gain skills that will help improve their
functional efficiency.
3. This project was undertaken by the Institute of Management
in Government (IMG) at the behest of the Department of Personnel
and Training (DoPT), Government in India.
RUDHRA GANGADHARAN IAS
DIRECTOR
INSTITUTE OF MANAGEMENT IN GOVERNMENT
Thiruvananthapuram
28th May 2003
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
The successful completion of this module on Personality Development was
achieved through the wholehearted, sincere and committed support of a number of
dignitaries whom I take this opportunity to acknowledge. First of all let me express
my deep sense of gratitude to Shri.Agarwal, Joint Secretary, Department of
Personnel and Training Government of India for entrusting me with the task of
preparing this module and I hope that the work has come upto his expectation level
and demand. But for his encouragement, this work could not have materialized.
Next I wholeheartedly acknowledge Shri. Rudhra Gangadharan, Principal
Secretary and Director, IMG for his valuable suggestions, support and timely help
all of which have gone a long way in helping me to complete the work within the
stipulated time.
I am thankful to Shri.Venkatesan, Joint Director, DoPT for all the valuable help
rendered by him.
My thanks are also due to Dr.Venkatapathy Director School of Management
Studies, Bharathiar University, Dr.Mathew Manimalayil, Professor, IIM, Bangalore
and Dr.Ramachandran Nair, Director, IMK Kerala University who have
wholeheartedly conducted the evaluation of the module and offered meaningful
suggestions. Their contributions have greatly helped me in perfecting the module.
I also wish to acknowledge the sincere co-operation of the experts in the field of
academic and administration who have attended the validation workshop and
offered valuable suggestions which were appropriately incorporated in the module.
Finally I wish to acknowledge the sincere suggestions and encouragement of my
colleagues and well wishers.
Dr.Chandra Prasad Sreedhar
CONTENTS
Page Number
1. Package of Personality Development 1
2. Leadership 4
3. Interpersonal Relations 7
4. Communication in organizations 9
5. Stress Management 13
6. Group Dynamics and Team Building 15
7. Conflict Management 18
8. Performance Appraisal 21
9. Time Management 24
10. Motivation 27
Package of Personality Development
Aim
The training module is aimed at the promotion of the strategies for the
personality development of the participants. The rationale behind this
endeavor is the recognition of the multifaceted influence of the
personality of the employees upon organisational effectiveness.
Objectives
The objective of the training programme is bring about personality
development with regard to the different behavioural dimensions that
have far reaching significance in the direction of organisational
effectiveness.
Methodology
Lecture-cum-discussion
Group Discussion
Management Games
Case Studies
Participants
The participants will consists of officers in the A,B and C category.
DURATION : 5 days
Course content
Unit 1 Leadership Introduction to Leadership, Leadership
Power, Leadership Styles, Leadership in
Administration.
Unit 2 Interpersonal Introduction to Interpersonal Relations, Analysis
Relations of different ego states, Analysis of Transactions,
Analysis of Strokes, Analysis of Life position
Unit 3 Communication Introduction to Communication, Flow
of Communication, Listening, Barriers
of Communication, How to overcome barriers
of communication.
Unit 4 Stress Introduction to Stress, Causes of Stress, Impact
Management Stress, Managing Stress
Unit 5 Group Dynamics Importance of groups in organization,
and Team Interactions in group, Group
Building Decision Taking, Team Building, Interaction
with the Team, How to build a good team?
Unit 6 Conflict Introduction to Conflict, Causes of Conflict,
Management Managing Conflict
Unit 7 Performance Introduction to Performance Appraisal,
Appraisal Vertical Appraisal, Horizontal Appraisal,
360º Performance Appraisal,
Methods of improving Techniques of
Performance Appraisal.
Unit 8 Time Time as a Resource, Identify Important Time
Management Wasters, Individual Time Management
Styles, Techniques for better Time
Management.
Unit 9 Motivation Introduction to Motivation, Relevance and
types of Motivation, Motivating the subordinates,
Analysis of Motivation
Day-wise Breakup
Session I Registration, Familiarisation and Inauguration
and Introduction to the Course
Session II Problem identification, report presentation
and discussion
Session III Introduction to Leadership
Day 1
Session IV Leadership Styles
Session I Interpersonal Relations
Session II Boss-Subordinate Relations
Session III Introduction to Communication
Day 2
Session IV Barriers of Communication
Session I Introduction to Stress and Causes of Stress
Session II Impact of Stress and Managing Stress
Session III Group Dynamics
Day 3
Session IV Team Building
Session I Introduction to Conflict
Session II Managing Conflict
Day 4 Session III Introduction to Performance Appraisal
Session IV Designing a Performance Appraisal System
Session I Time Management
Session II Managing time meaningfully
Session III Motivation
Day 5
Session IV Action Plan, Evaluation and Valediction
Day One (Forenoon)
Registration, Familiarisation and Inauguration. (45 minutes)
Introduction to the course (45 minutes)
This session involves a detailed discussion pertaining to the aims and objectives
of the course in general. The introduction of the total content areas is also
attempted in this session.
Problem Identification (45 minutes)
Suggested methodology – Group discussion.
During this session the participants will be divided into specific number of
groups and each group is expected to discuss the problems that they are facing in
their organisation. Each group is to have a leader who is to present a
consolidated report of the problems faced by the members of his group.
Report Presentation and discussion (45 minutes)
After the presentation of the reports by each of the leaders, in order to fulfil the
requirement of this session in Problem Identification, the course director will be
preparing a detailed list of all the problems cited. The list of problems will then be
circulated to all the trainers who are handling the various sessions.
Day One (Afternoon) - Leadership
Objectives
To impart knowledge, sharpen skills and orient attitudes of participants so that
they are capable of performing better in their roles as leaders based on the
situation.
Content
Leadership – importance and significance – the concept – leader vs. manager –
Are all leaders managers? - Are all managers leaders? – categories of leaders :
entrepreneurial – administrative – political. Leadership styles : autocratic
(authoritarian and paternalistic) – democratic – laizzes faire. Leadership style –
the concept of situational leadership – identification of individual leadership
styles and construction of personal leadership style profiles.
Methodology Suggested
(1) Lecture
(2) Games
(3) Group Discussion
(4) Case Studies
Time Schedule
1. Lecture cum discussion on
leadership concepts – 45 minutes
2. Exercise of tower building - 60 minutes
and discussion
3. TP Leadership style
questionnaire & Construction
of Personal Leadership
style profiles - 30 minutes
4. Experience sharing - 45 minutes
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Total - 180 minutes
Instructions to Trainers
- During the initial discussion importance and primacy of leadership should be
highlighted. The concept of leader and manager should compared and
contrasted. It should be made clear that while categorization of leadership is
based on what leaders do or what they are capable of doing best, identification
of leadership styles is based on how leaders perform the tasks of:
(1) making decisions
(2) implementing decisions
- The tower building exercise, if properly conducted, can be a very powerful tool
to bring out participants’ leadership styles and even to compare their relative
merits and demerits.
Two participants should be requested to volunteer to take up the roles of leader
and follower. They should be requested to come to the front and shown the blocks
with which they have to build a tower. They should also be told that the “follower”
will be blind folded and that she/he will be allowed to use only one hand and will have
to build the tower based on the leader’s instructions.
It should also be told that they should try to build as high a tower as possible.
Before announcement of work, they should be asked to give their estimate of the
height of the tower they are going to build in terms of number of blocks. These should
be recorded. Care should be taken to note even minute details such as whether the
estimates given are based on mutual consultation or are individual opinions.
After the briefing, the follower should be blindfolded and made to stand on one
side of the table on which the blocks are kept and the leader should be instructed to
stand on the opposite side. Then they should proceed to construct the tower. Even
minute aspects of the behaviour of the leader and follower should be observed and
recorded, such as:
(1) leader’s behaviour at the beginning especially goal setting
(2) whether the leader tries to encourage, control and motivate the follower.
(3) Does the leader provide feedback to the follower? If yes, is it sufficient.
(4) How do they respond/react in case the tower collapses during the
construction.
(5) Leaders behaviour at Project completion.
After the team completes the tower construction there should be a guided
discussion on all aspects of the teams performance viz., goal setting, leadership styles,
communication, empathy etc.
- The TP Leadership Questionnaire should be administered after the exercise of
tower building. Required instructions are given on the Questionnaire, Score
Sheet and Leadership style, Profile Sheet.
Based on the leadership style of individual participants, discussions as to
whether any change in their styles is required etc. can be made.
Day Two (Forenoon) - Interpersonal Relations
(Transactional Analysis)
Objectives
To create an awareness in the participants with regard to the different aspects of
interpersonal relations based on the ideas envisaged in Transactional Analysis
and their relative significance in the context of the functional effectiveness of
organisations.
Contents
Introduction
Analysis of different ego states
Analysis of Transactions
Analysis of Strokes
Analysis of Life position
Methodology
1. Lecture Method
2. Questionnaire method
Time Schedule
15 minutes Introduction
45 minutes Analysis of different ego states
30 minutes Administor the questionnaire and analysis different ego
states
30 minutes Analysis of Transactions
30 minutes Analysis of Strokes
30 minutes Analysis of Life position
Instruction to Trainers
1. Introduction
In this section, participants are to be provided with theoretical knowledge with
regard to nature, types and outcomes of various interpersonal relationships in
relation with Transactional Analysis.
2. Analysis of Ego States
In this session Ego States are to be analysed with the help of concrete examples
in the organisational set up. This session involves the use of a lecture-cumdiscussion
method.
After the analysis of ego status the questionnaire for identifying the same may
be administered to the participants and their responses scored in accordance with
the scoring schedule provided. The scores are then analysed and interpreted in
order to provide the participants informations regarding this relative positions
with regard to different ego states.
3. Analysis of Transactions
The participants should be made aware of the different types of transactions
such as complementary, crossed and ulterior transactions and are then
encouraged to identify their predominant style of transaction. Then the merits
and demerits of the different styls are evaluated and the need, scope and method
of changing the styles as and when required is also discussed.
4. Analysis of Strokes
Strokes can be considered in the most simple way as forms of rewards
(appreciations) and punishments. They can be either positive or negative and all
people need them for being and also for performing. After providing the
awareness regarding the different stroking patterns to the participants, they are
asked to make an evaluation of their stroking patterns and identify their merits
and demerits and also to suggest changes, if any, required in stroking patterns to
enhance interpersonal relationships.
5. Analysis of Life Positions
As per the concepts involved in Transactional Analysis, four different types of
Life positions have been identified. They are:
1. I am OK You are OK
2. I am not OK You are not OK
3. I am OK You are not OK
4. I am not OK You are OK
The trainer has to provide evaluative information regarding these life positions
to the participants and they should be encouraged to identify their life positions
and understand merits and demerits. The participants are also made to come out
with suggestions for changing their life positions in accordance with the
appropriation of the situations in order to enhance interpersonal contracts.
Day Two (Afternoon) - Communication In Organisations
Objectives
To empower participants to be better communicators by providing them with
relevant inputs and also sharpening their skills.
Contents
Introduction to Communication – Communication as a process –
Communication as a concept – Importance of Communication – Types of
Communication – Effective Communication - The ABCs of Communication –
Model for Communication process – Communication categories – Barriers to
effective Communication.
Methodology
The methodology shall consist of Lecture, exercises, games, inventories and
case studies.
Time Schedule
1. Introduction and clarification of concepts - 20 minutes
(lecturette)
2. Exercise – Please follow the Instructions - 10 minutes
3. Barriers to Effective Communication - 60 minutes
(story telling exercise and Lecturette)
4. Exercise – Separate Fact from Inference - 10 minutes
5. Questionnaire on Listening - 10 minutes
6. Questionnaire on Speaking - 10 minutes
7. Drawing exercise - 30 minutes
8. Improving Communication - 30 minutes
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Total - 180 minutes
Instructions to Trainers
(i) Read the write up, “Communication in Organizations” thoroughly. The
sequence of topics suggested for the session closely follows the text.
(ii) An appropriate ice breaker should be used at the beginning of the session.
(iii) Whenever OHP is used, take care not to turn back and look at the screen. The
trainer should always face the audience. If something is to be pointed, it can be
done on the transparency, which will also get projected.
(iv) The following modus operandi is suggested for the story telling exercise:
(a) request five volunteers to wait outside the hall at a distance from where
they cannot hear what somebody speaks in the class.
(b) allot them numbers 1-5 and tell them that they will have to return to class
in this order when called
(c) request anyone in the hall to share an interesting incident in her/his life,
which other participants do not know.
(d) After the narration is over, request volunteer No.1 to return to the class.
She/he may be given a chair right in the front.
(e) Request any member in the audience to come forward and repeat the
narration she/he heard. Volunteer No.1 should be asked to listen carefully
to the narration and others should be instructed not to offer explanations,
clarifications etc.
(f) After this step is over, volunteer No.2 should be brought to the class and
Volunteer No.1 should tell her/him what he heard.
(g) This process has to be continued. Volunteer No.2 should repeat what
she/he heard to Volunteer No.3 and Volunteer No.3 has to do the same
with Volunteer No.4.
(h) Volunteer No.4 should be asked to go to Volunteer No.5 who is waiting
outside and tell her/him what she/he heard.
(i) After step (h) Volunteer Nos.4 and 5 should return to the class. Volunteer
No.4 should be requested to occupy a seat and No.5 should be asked to
repeat what she/he heard to the group.
(j) The narrations by Volunteer No.5 and that of the original storyteller can
be compared to get some idea of the transmission alterations.
(k) This exercise can be very interesting and audience usually burst out
laughing during each narration.
(l) It will be interesting to record the original story and the narration of the
Volunteer No.5 for obvious reasons.
(v) After the exercise “Separate Facts from Inference”, the trainer should point out
that Separating Facts from Inferences is basically a communication skill
irrespective of the field of applications. Number of correct responses by
participants may also be checked (only statement No.3 is a fact). Differences in
individual and group effectiveness can also be observed.
(vi) For Questionnaires on Listening and Speaking, respondents should be asked to
give ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ answers to each Question, based on how they would behave
during majority of situations. They have to answer questions based on how they
would behave and not how they should behave. Most participants will know the
ideal answers and so the questionnaires will give them some idea about
themselves as listeners and speakers. If necessary, the trainer can give some
explanations.
(vii) The modus operandi to conduct the drawing exercise will be as follows:
The participants may be divided in to two equal groups (say No. Ones and No.
Twos) and one group can be asked to wait outside the hall.
To each participant inside the hall a piece of paper (½ of an A4 size sheet)
should be given and they should be requested to write their names on top left. The
following 2 figures should be projected on the screen and each participant should copy
one of the figures on their sheets of paper reasonably big enough, with the sketch pens
that will be supplied to them.
Then they should be given the instruction sheet – sample attached – which will
be of A4 size. The group of No. Ones who are given the role of senders should be
given the task of making one from the other group (they will be receivers) draw the
same diagram that No. Ones have drawn initially on the right hand side of the
instruction sheet, by giving written instructions. They cannot give any pictorial
directives. After the Senders’ finish writing down instructions their initial drawings
should be collected and kept away. The pictures should no longer be projected on the
screen. then the group, which has been waiting outside the hall, should be asked to
come in. The senders should hand over the instruction sheets to the receivers. The
sender should not be allowed to orally communicate with the receivers. But they
should be encouraged to watch how the receivers proceed. Once the receivers have
completed ‘their’ drawings the instruction sheets should be collected back and each
drawing should be paired with its “original”. Each set should be shown to the entire
group with trainers comments whenever appropriate.
Day Three (Forenoon) - Stress Management
Objectives
The principal objectives of this unit are to familiarize the participants with the
knowledge regarding the various causes of stress, type of stresses and above all the
various stress management strategies.
Content
Introduction to Stress Management - Causes of Stress - Impact of Stress -
Managing Stress
Methods
Lecture method
Group discussion
Relaxation Techniques (Demonstration)
Time Schedule
30 minutes - Introduction
45 minutes - Causes of Stress
45 minutes - Impact of Stress
45 minutes - Managing Stress
15 minutes - Question and answers session
Instruction to trainers
Introduction of Stress Management
This is the first topic of the units namely the Introduction. The following factors
should be covered.
1) What is Stress?
2) Relevance of Stress
3) Difference between Distress and Eustress
4) General Adaptation Syndrome
Causes of Stress
The second part of the unit is aimed at analysing the Causes of Stress. This
analysis will be through a group discussion. The whole class can be divided in
to three groups. Each group has to analyse the causes along the following
dimensions.
1. Organisational based stress
2. Family based stress
3. Social stresses
After the discussion each group has to present a brief report and the
presentation will be again followed by evaluations and discussion
Impact of Stress
This part of the unit is aimed at analysing the impact of stress up on individual
and organisation. Some of the topics covered in this sections include areas such
as: (1) Decision Making (Indecision, Delay, Error), (2) Performance
(Absenteeism, Sabotage, Productivity) (3) Behavioural Area (Excessive
smoking, Excessive drinking, Excessive in take off coffee or tea, Tremor,
Drumming Fingers, Nail Bitting, Body Movements, Accidents (4)
Psychological (Poor Memory, Poor Concentration, Sleep problems, Anxiety,
Fear, Inability to relax, Depression, Suicide, Anger (5) Psychosomatic (Hyper
tension, Peptic Ulcer, Irritable Bowel Syndrome, Tension head-ache, Bronchial
Asthma, Diabetes, Neuro Dermatitis)
Managing Stress
This section involves a theoretical as well as a practical session. The theoretical
session is aimed at increasing the awareness of participants regarding the
influence of perceptual changes, personality, proper exercise, time management
and the avoidance of long working hours in reducing the experience of stress.
The practical session involves the imparting of training in Yoga, Mediation and
Relaxation. It is essential that this session should be handled by an expert in
these areas.
Day Three (Afternoon) - Group Dynamics &Team Building
Objectives
To improve managerial capabilities of participants through team building and
group dynamics.
Contents
Concept of team – concept of group - synergy – principles of intra-group
dynamics relevant in the context of team building and management. How to
build and manage effective teams.
Method
Lecutre method
Games
Group work
Time Schedule
1. The exercise of broken squares - 45 minutes
2. Discussion - 30 minutes
3. Participants’ experience sharing - 30 minutes
4. Group work on developing an effective - 45 minutes
strategy for team building and management
5. Presentation of reports - 30 minutes
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Total - 180 minutes
Instructions to Trainers
- A unique feature of the session on team building and management will be that a
game/exercise will precede discussions
- The exercise of broken squares will be conducted without announcing that it is
part of a session on team building and management
- To conduct the exercise of broken squares the group will be divided in to teams
of five members. If the group is not exactly divisible by five, the remaining
members should be given the role of observers. They should be briefed before
commencement of the exercise and should be given a chance to present their
observations after conclusion of the exercise.
- Each team of participants (consisting of five members) should be directed to sit
around a table.
- Each team should be given a set of 5 covers each containing 3 pieces of thick
paper.
- The teams should be told that they have to complete a group task. The task
involves making 5 squares, one in front of each person, using the pieces of paper
which they get from the covers.
- It should also be announced that though it will be possible to make 5 squares
using the 15 pieces that each team gets, it may or may not be possible for an
individual to make squares with the pieces she/he gets from her/his cover.
- The following rules of the game should be stated very clearly:
•= Participants should not express their desire to get pieces from
others in any manner.
•= Grabbing pieces from others is prohibited.
•= Participant should not talk at all during the exercise
•= Sub contracting is not allowed ie., one person should not make
squares for others.
•= No one is captain or leader ie., every member has the same status as
a group member
•= Participants should refrain from mutilating the pieces in any way.
ie, bending, folding, tearing, cutting etc. of pieces are not allowed.
•= However, participants are free to accept pieces from any or all of
the four other members if they offer pieces on their own.
•= Participants are free to offer their pieces to any or all of the other
four members.
•= It is not obligatory on the part of the participants to offer pieces in
return to the ones they accept.
•= Participants may not get pieces from others in exchange of the ones
given.
•= No participant should offer directions to others even non-verbally.
•= It would be accepted that teams have completed their tasks, when
they have five squares, one in front of each member.
- The trainer (and other observers if any) should move around closely observing
what happens in each team.
- The exercise should be wound up either after all teams have completed the task
or the lapse of 30 minutes after commencement of the task (excluding briefing)
whichever is earlier.
- The exercise should be followed by a discussion highlighting important aspects
of intra-group dynamics significant in the conduct of team building and
management. While analysing what happened during the game, care should be
taken to cover the following.
(i) States of mind undergone by participants when they took part in the game
(ii) feelings and emotions experienced by participants during the game
(iii) behaviours exhibited by participants during square building
The following points should essentially be covered.
(i) Failure to perceive the group-work as it should be. The moment a square is
ready in front them, some participants may withdraw from the group-work
assuming that they have nothing more to contribute.
(ii) Playing the role of blockers to group. Eg. Participants making squares in the
wrong way (ie., the use of prices to make a square in such a way which will
prevent all five people making squares)
(iii) Consumption of more than due share of organizational resources (making
squares with more than three pieces and remaining unwilling to dismantle them
even after observing that there are not sufficient pieces for everybody to make
squares).
(iv) Satisfaction with limited achievements (Participants making small squares with
less than 3 pieces and remaining satisfied with them even after observing that
others are making squares much bigger than theirs).
(v) Collecting resources and idling them (same participants go on accepting pieces
whenever someone offers, irrespective of whether they need it or not. They
accumulate pieces which they cannot use and prevent others from using them)
(vi) Hard but unproductive work (some participants go on collecting and
distributing pieces. they even try to give directions to others breaking the rules
of the same. Lot of activity takes place but squares are not being formed).
(vii) Realising the need for communication (many participants develop a feeling “If
I could communicate”)
(viii) Realising the need for well defined leadership (while they are engaged in this
group task where no one is selected/appointed/elected as a leader, many may
develop a feeling, “If we had a leader”)
Day Four (Forenoon) - Conflict Management
Objectives
To familiarise participants with the importance, influence and methods of
managing conflict.
Content
Introduction to conflict – What is Conflict – Goal Conflict – Cognitive Conflict
and Emotional Conflict (affection) . Levels of conflict –Intrapersonal Conflict –
Interpersonal Conflict – Intragroup Conflict – Inter-group Conflict – Intra-
Organisational Conflict. Managing Conflict and Conflict Resolution Styles.
Method
Lecture Method
Games
Group Discussion
Time Schedule
45 minutes - Introduction
45 minutes - Games
45 minutes - Levels of Conflict
45 minutes - Managing Conflict
Instruction to Trainers
Introduction
What is Conflict? Merits and demerits of Conflict? Is Conflict essential?
Importance of Goal Conflict, Cognitive Conflict and Emotional Conflict – all
those should be discussed.
Levels of Conflict
Awareness regarding levels of conflict can be provided to the participants
through the analysis of the results of a Management Game.
Games
The participants are made to assemble in a room and the trainer will introduce a
concept and ask the participants to mention this qualities or attributes of that
concept. For eg., Leader – what are the qualities of leadership?
The members are encouraged to mention their own ideas regarding the concept.
After the identification of each quality all the participants are required to note it
down. In this manner a list of qualities/attributes will be prepared. Then each
participant is encouraged to rank the qualities on the basis of his/her evaluation.
Thus all the participants at this stage will be having a ranked list of qualities or
attributes of the concept introduced by the trainers.
In the next stage the participants are divided into two groups. Then each group
is asked to make a critical examination of the attributes and come out with a
consensual ranking of the attributes. So at the end of this stage the two groups
will each have a consensually ranked list of qualities or attributes.
Then from each group 4 participants will be identified as Spokespersons and
they will be seated in front, others seated at their back side. The Spokespersons
alone will speak others can of course give ideas to their respective
Spokespersons. Each group is then instructed to enforce their ranking upon the
other group without any sign of yielding. This is meant to evoke heated
arguments, discussions so on and so forth. Finally both the groups will remain
sticking to their own list.
In the next stage, the trainer will be selecting 4 other persons from each group
and they will be instructed to settle the problem. The change in the attitude of
this group can be clearly identified.
In the total game, when the participants are making individual ranking of the
listed attributes what they are experiencing is intrapersonal conflict. This is
actually what is being experienced by an officer in an Organization while he is
involved in the process of decision making.
When the participants were in the two groups with their own ranked list they
were in a state of intra group conflict.
In the stage of heated discussion between the two groups, the participants were
experiencing intergroup conflict.
In all these situations, the existence interpersonal conflict can clearly be
identified. After analysing the results of the games, the participants should be
provided with maximum informations pertaining to the 4 different types of
conflicts identified earlier.
Intra-Organizational Conflict
Four types of intra-organizational conflict exist: (1) vertical conflict (2)
horizontal conflict (3) line-staff conflict and (4) role conflict. Participants
should also be given informations regarding different aspects of these conflicts.
Managing Conflict
This part of the Unit is aimed at analysing the techniques of Managing Conflict.
The whole class can be divided into 3 groups. Each group has to come out with
suggestions regarding methods of resolving/overcoming conflicts.
After the discussion, each group has to present a brief report and the
presentation will be followed by evaluation and discussion.
Day Four (Afternoon) - Performance Appraisal
Objectives
To clarify the concepts related to Performance Appraisal and create an
awareness regarding its method of implementation in the context of its
contribution to Personality Development.
Content
Performance Appraisal and overview - Techniques of Performance Appraisal -
What should performance appraisal measure and who should do it - Application
of Performance Appraisal - Designing a Performance Appraisal System
Time Schedule
35 minutes - Performance Appraisal and Overview
30 minutes - Techniques of Performance Appraisal
45 minutes - What should performance appraisal measure
30 minutes - Application of Performance Appraisal
45 minutes - Designing a Performance Appraisal System
Instructions to Trainers
Performance Appraisal – an overview
This is the first topic of the Unit. The following points should be covered:
1) Concept of Performance Appraisal
2) Need for Performance Appraisal
3) Ways of Performance Appraisal
Methodology suggested : Lecture
Duration : 35 minutes
Techniques of Performance Appraisal
This session should cover important Performance Appraisal Techniques and
their relative merits and demerits.
Methodology suggested : Lecture
Duration : 30 minutes
What should Performance Appraisal measure and who should do it
a. What should Performance Appraisal measure
1) Work related knowledge
2) Creativity
3) Perceiverancies
4) Willingness to change
5) Attitude towards Boss-subordinates, Colleagues and Organisations
6) Skill Development
b. Who should do it
Discussion on this topic should lead to identification of the ideal person to
do the job taking in to account factors such as job position, knowledge, skills,
creativity etc.
Methodology : Lecture-cum-discussion
Duration : 45 minutes
Application of Performance Appraisal
1) Basis for reward and punishment
2) Basis for Personality Development
Methodology : Lecture-cum-discussion
Duration : 30 minutes
Designing a Performance Appraisal System
Group Work
Development of a Performance Appraisal System for your organisation. 45
minutes to be apportion as suggested below:
10 minutes - Individual Enumerate points
10 minutes - Uninterupted Presentation by individuals
25 minutes - Group Discussion
15 minutes - Presentation and Discussion
Day Five (Forenoon) - Time Management
Objectives
To impart relevant knowledge, sharpen the requisite skills and orient attitudes of
participants so that they become more efficient with regard to the management
of time.
Contents
The concept of time and time management – uniqueness of time as a resource –
the cost of time – importance of and need for time management – causes of time
mismanagement – urgency addiction and time management matrix – hard work
vs. smart work – demands on one’s time – different time management styles –
time cheaters and beaters – goal setting and planning for long term time
management – short term time management – good ideas for time management
– managing meetings effectively – steps towards better time management.
Methodology
Methodology shall consist of lectures, inventories, exercises, discussions and
film show.
Time Schedule
1. Introductory lecture covering basic concepts - 15 minutes
2. Estimating participants cost of time - 10 minutes
3. Causes of time management - 15 minutes
(Lecture-cum-Discussion)
4. Smart work Vs. hard work - 10 minutes
(Lecture-cum-Discussion)
5. Demands on time and time management styles
(Lecture) - 20 minutes
6. Identification of participant’s time
management styles - 10 minutes
7. The concept of time management matrix
(lecture) - 10 minutes
8. Time cheaters and beaters (inventory) - 10 minutes
9. Long term and short term time management
(Lecture) - 15 minutes
10. Managing meetings (lecture) - 10 minutes
11. Experience sharing (by participants) - 15 minutes
12. Steps towards better time management - 15 minutes
(lecture-cum-discussion)
13. Action Planning (Group Exercise) - 15 minutes
14. Presentation of Plans - 10 minutes
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Total - 180 minutes
Instruction to Trainers
During the introductory lecture itself developing time sensitivity among
participants should be attempted or rather achieved. Participants should be
made aware of the uniqueness of time as the only resource equally distributed
among people. The following characteristics about time also will have to be
highlighted.
(i) non-retrievability
(ii) non-reservability
(iii) irreplacability
(iv) irreversibility
Estimating cost of participants’ time may be done using the proforma suggested.
Enumeration of the causes of time mismanagement should basically be an
outcome of discussion during which participants should be encouraged to
generate ideas.
Participants should be made to distinguish between hard work and smart work
citing examples from their own lives or situations familiar to them.
Identification of individual time management styles can also be done using the
relevant proforma which will help classifying people in to the following 8
groups.
1. Balanced time managers
2. Those who do their things well
3. Those who do others things well
4. Those with good intentions but no productivity
5. Unrealistic dreamers
6. Those who are on a tread mill
7. Delightful but incompetent persons
8. Persons neither delightful nor competent
The concept of time management matrix should be an eye opener to everyone.
The characteristics of, and differences between, the quadrant of quality and the
quadrant of deception should be made clear to all concerned. The participants
should be urged to become quadrant II (quality) oriented.
Use of the proforma Time Cheaters and Beaters can be expected to make
participants aware of the time cheaters which affect them and the corresponding
time beaters they can use to deal with them.
Discussion on long term and short term time management should provide
participants with further theoretical base and pragmatic ideas for effective time
management.
The lecture on managing meetings will be very useful for those with conference
/ leadership responsibilities. However, this section can be skipped during
programmes where the participants do not have such responsibilities.
Experience sharing should precede the discussion session on “steps towards
better time management”. The success and failures narrated during experience
sharing should provide inputs/ideas for group discussion.
For the group exercise viz., Action Planning, participants should be divided in to
group of 5 members and a leader selected and assigned responsibilities. At the
end, each group should be made to present their reports.
Day Five (Afternoon) - Motivation
Objective
To make the participants aware of the multifaceted impact of the concept of
Motivation upon efficient organizational functioning.
Contents
Introduction - Relevance and Types of Motivation - Theories of motivation -
Analysis of Motivation - Motivating the subordinate.
Methodology
(1) Lecture Method
(2) Questionnaire Method
Time Schedule
30 minutes - Introduction
30 minutes - Relevance and types of Motivation
30 minutes - Motivating the subordinates
30 minutes - Analysis of Motivation
Instructions to Trainers
1. Introduction
The session relating to this topic should cover informations relating to different
motivational concepts and the theories of Maslow Mc Clelland, Herzberg and so
on.
2. Relevance and Types of Motivation
In this session participants should be provided with informations pertaining to
the relevance of Motivation to performance. They should also be made aware of
the different types of motivations such as Positive motivation, Negative or Fear
motivation, Intrinsic Motivation, Extrinsic Motivation etc.
3. Analysis of Motivation
Through the use of case analysis and questionnaire the participants should be
made aware of the operation of the different motivational concepts.
4. Motivating Subordinates
Through the use of active discussion with the participants, the trainers can make
the participants informed about the methods by which motivational level of
subordinates can be enhanced.
Day Five (Afternoon) - Evaluation and Valediction
Time Schedule (1 hour)
This session should be devoted to prepare an Action Plan and Evaluation.
It is expected to incorporate all possible ideas and suggestions that have evolved
during the course of training.
An evaluation feed back regarding the merits and demerits of the module will
also sought.
T.P.LEADERSHIP QUESTIONNAIRE
Directions
The following items describe aspects of leadership behaviour. Respond to each item
according to what you would most likely act if you were the leader of a work group by
circling the appropriate response given at the left of each statement.
Code Response
A Always
F Frequently
O Occasionally
S Seldom
N Never
A F O S N 1. I would most likely act as the spokesman of the group
A F O S N 2. I would encourage overtime work
A F O S N 3. I would allow members complete freedom in their work
A F O S N 4. I would encourage the use of uniform procedures
A F O S N 5. I would permit the members to use their own judgement
in solving problems
A F O S N 6. I would stress being ahead of competing groups
A F O S N 7. I would speak as the representatives of the group
A F O S N 8. I would needle members for greater effort
A F O S N 9. I would try out my ideas in the group
A F O S N 10. I would let the members do their work the way they think
best
A F O S N 11. I would be working hard for a promotion
A F O S N 12. I would tolerate postponement and uncertainty
A F O S N 13. I would speak for the group if there were visitors
A F O S N 14. I would keep the work moving at a rapid pace
A F O S N 15. I would turn the members loose on a job and let them go
to it.
A F O S N 16. I would settle conflicts when they occur in the group
A F O S N 17. I would get swamped by details
A F O S N 18. I would represent the group at outside meetings.
A F O S N 19. I would be reluctant to allow the members any freedom
of action.
A F O S N 20. I would decide what should be done and how it should
be done.
A F O S N 21. I would push for increased production.
A F O S N 22. I would let some members have authority which I could
keep.
A F O S N 23. Things would usually turn out as I had predicted.
A F O S N 24. I would allow the group a high degree of initiative.
A F O S N 25. I would assign group members to particular tasks.
A F O S N 26. I would be willing to make changes.
A F O S N 27. I would ask the members to work harder.
A F O S N 28. I would trust the group members to exercise good
judgement.
A F O S N 29. I would schedule the work to be done
A F O S N 30. I would refuse to explain my actions
A F O S N 31. I would persuade others that my ideas are to their
Advantage
A F O S N 32. I would permit the group to set its own pace.
A F O S N 33. I would urge the group to beat its previous records.
A F O S N 34. I would act without consulting the group.
A F O S N 35. I would ask that group members follow standard rules
and regulations.
T.P.LEADERSHIP SCORING SHEET
For every statement for which your response is either of the two indicated against each,
you score one point. Mark each item by placing a √ if you score.
T Score P Score
Item No Response Item No Response
1 A or F 2 A or F
3 A or F 4
5 A or F 6 A or F
7 A or F 8 S or N
9 A or F 10 A or F
11 A or F 12 S or N
13 A or F 14 A or F
15 A or F 16 A or F
17 S or N 18 S or N
19 S or N 20 A or F
21 A or F 22 A or F
23 A or F 24 A or F
25 A or F 26 A or F
27 A or F 28 A or F
29 A or F 30 S or N
31 A or F 32 A or F
33 A or F 34 S or N
35 S or N
Total Score
(total No of √ s)
Total Score
(Total No of √ s)
T.P.LEADERSHIP-STYLE PROFILE SHEET
Name Orgn
Directions: To determine your style of leadership, mark your score on the concern for
task dimension (T) on the left-hand arrow below. Next, move to the right hand arrow
and mark your score on the concern for people-dimension (P). Draw a straight line that
intersects the P and T scores. The point at which that line crosses the shared leadership
arrow indicates your score on the dimension.
SHARED LEADERSHIP RESULTS FROM BALANCING CONCERN FOR
TASK AND CONCERN FOR PEOPLE
20 High 15
15
Medium 10
10
5 Low 5
Autocratic Leadership
High Productivity
Shared Leadership
High Morale and
Productivity
Laissez-faire
Leadership
High Morale
EXPLORING YOUR PERSONALITY
Show how frequently you do each of the following behaviours by placing (√) in the
proper column opposite each item.
Frequency
Behaviour on the job Almost
Never
Rarely Sometimes Frequently Very
Frequently
1. I give people reasons why
my work isn’t done
2. I feel bad about
something (about what
someone did or said to me,
or about something I did or
said)
3. I expect people to do
what I say
4. I send out a questionnaire
or carry out a survey to get
needed information
5. I do what my boss says to
do even when it’s difficult
6. I feel guilty about
something (not getting a job
done on time, coming in
late, working too hard, and
so on)
7. I play a hunch without
bothering to gather factual
data.
8. I smile at other people
(co-workers, subordinates,
customers, superiors, and so
on)
9. I suggest that an ill
person see the nurse or take
the rest of the day off.
10. I insist that things be
done my way.
11. I hear a voice in my
head saying something
like:”Those people
should………..
12. When I know something
won’t be ready when I want
it, I repeatedly ask if it
might possible be ready
ahead of schedule.
13. I find ways to make a
boring task interesting.
14. I attend classes,
programs, seminars, and so
on, to improve my job
skills.
15. I have a feeling that
something unusual is about
to happen before it happens.
16. I plan ways to do things
that might be considered
harmful, illegal, or
unethical.
17. I say (or think) things
like:”What would you do
without me?”
18. I do a little dance step
when walking into a friend’s
office or work area.
19. I correct subordinates
when they fail to perform up
to standard
20. I cleverly figure out how
to get my own way at
someone else’s expense
21. I keep calm when in an
emotionally charged
atmosphere.
22. I help my co-workers,
subordinates, or boss by
going a little out of my way
to do something for them.
23. I feel hurt and go off
somewhere to be by myself.
24. I put people down
without thinking.
25. I take a stretch break
and really enjoy the feeling
of loosening up my muscles
and relaxing
26. I say “please” and
“thank you”.
27. I say or think things
like: “I’ll do it for them;
they can’t be expected to
handle it.”
28. I talk about facts when
another person is in need of
comfort.
29. I take the last one of the
doughnuts or other goodies
someone brought for coffee
break.
30. I gather necessary
information and then use my
sixth sense to make an
accurate interpretation
31. I help out co-worker in
an emergency
32. I insist that others take
care of themselves-for
example, that they wear a
coat on a windy day or carry
an umbrella if it looks like
ran.
33. I answer the phone in a
well-modulated voice,
giving my name or the name
of my company for unit.
34. I slyly work out a way to
avoid doing a job that’s
been assigned to me.
35. I set people straight
when they aren’t doing their
job properly
36. I set standards for proper
performance.
Reference: JONGEWARDM D & SEYER P C
CHOOSING SUCCESS
(Transactional Analysis on the job)
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Inc.1978
Now that you’ve filled out the
questionnaire. Let’s score it. Here’s how to
do it.
1. Give yourself a score for each
question using this formula
4 points for “very frequently”
3 points for “frequently”
2 point for “sometimes”
1 point for “rarely”
0 points for “almost never”
2. Write your scores in the proper boxes
in the chart. For example, if you
answered question 1 with
“sometimes,” you would put a “2” in
the box indicated for question 1. If
you answered “very frequently” for
question 2, you would put a “4” in
the box designated for question 2,
and so on.
3. Add the numbers in each column and
enter the totals in the spaces
provided.
The total for the first column is your
score for your CP (Controlling Parent).
The total for the column labeled NP is
your score for your Nurturing Parent,
and so on.
CP - Controlling Parent
NP – Nurturing Parent
A - Adult
NC – Natural Child
LP - Little Professor
AC - Adapted Child
Question
No
Ego State
CP NP A NC LP AC
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Totals CP NP A NC LP AC
PLEASE FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS
01. Read everything before doing anything, but work as rapidly as you can
02. Put you name and address in the space provided for:
Name:……………………………
Address:………………………….
03. Circle the world name in the second instruction
04. Write the name of your native place:……………………….
05. Now draw a circle around the title of this paper
06. Sign your name under the title
07. In sentence four, draw a circle around the word “native”.
08. Write the name of India’s Capital:……………………..
09. Underline all of sentence seven
10. Stand up for a few seconds (2 to 5 seconds will do)
11. Draw an “X” in the lower left hand corner of this paper
12. Draw a circle around the “X” you drew just now
13. Write the name of your husband or wife if you are married If not, write your
father’s name:……………..
14. Draw a circle around the word “Capital” in sentence eight
15. Shout out loud your name when you get to this point
16. If you think you have followed instructions to this point, call out “I HAVE” in
such way that everyone in the room can hear you.
17. Close your eyes and raise your left hand over your head
18. Write your designation
19. Count out loud and clear in your voice, backwards from ten to one.
20. Now that you have red the instructions carefully, do only what instructions one
and twenty ask to do. Ignore all other directions.
Note: Please do not give this paper to anybody; make no comments or explanations If
you have read this far, pretend that you are still writing. Let us see how many persons
really follow instructions carefully.
SEPARATE FACT FROM INFERENCE
Read the narration carefully which follows. Then see how well you can distinguish a
FACT from an INFERENCE.
Shama, a buyer with the XYZ company, was scheduled for a 10 O’Clock meeting in
Singh’s office to discuss the terms of a large order. On the way to that office, the buyer
slipped on a freshly waxed floor and as a result received a badly bruised leg. By the time
Singh was notified of the accident, Shama was on the way to the hospital for X-ray. Singh
called the hospital to enquire, but no one there seemed to know anything about Sharma. It
is possible that Singh called the wrong hospital.
Examine the statements below. Without discussion, put a tick (√) mark against each
statement as to whether it is a FACT or an INFERENCE (in the personal choice columns)
Statements Personal Choice Group Choice
Fact Inference Fact Inference
1. Mr.Shama is a buyer
2. Shama was supposed to meet with Singh
3. Shama was scheduled for a 10 O’Clock
meeting
4. The accident occurred at the XYZ
company
5. Shama was taken to the hospital for XRay
6. No one at the hospital which Singh
called knew anything about Shama
7. Singh had called the wrong hospital
COMMUNICATING EFFECTIVELY-I
(LISTENING)
1. Are you waiting impatiently for thee other person to shut up so that you can talk?
2. Are you in such a hurry to offer a solution that you don’t want to hear the problem?
3. Are you listening only for what you like to hear?
4. Do emotional blocks get in the way of your listening?
5. Do your thoughts take side excursions while the other person is talking?
6. Are you memorizing more details instead of getting the main points?
7. Do you quit listening when the subject matter gets difficult?
8. Do you have a negative attitude while listening?
9. Do you just pretend to listen?
10. Do you put yourself in the speaker’s place to understand what makes him/her say that?
11. Do you take into account that you and the speaker may not be discussing the same
question?
12. Are you alert for misunderstandings that could arise because the words don’t mean the
same to you as they do to the speaker?
13. Do you try to find out what the argument is about? Whether there is a real difference of
opinions or is it just a matter of stating the problem?
COMMUNICATING EFFECTIVELY-II
(SPEAKING)
Are you careful to watch for signs of misunderstandings in your listener?
Do you choose words that fit the listener’s intelligence and backgrounds?
Do you think out directions before giving them?
Do you breakdown orders in to small enough packages?
If your listener does not ask questions about a new idea you are presenting, do you assume that
he/she understands it?
Do you speak distinctly? Control distractions as far as possible?
Do you “bale” your thoughts before speaking so that you won’t ramble?
Do you put the listener at ease?
Do you encourage questions?
Do you assume that you know what the other person has in his/her mind? Or do you ask
questions to find out?
Do you distinguish between facts and opinions?
Do you stiffen up the opposition by contradicting his/her/their statements?
Do you influence your listeners to be “Yes Sir”, “Yes Madam” or “Yes friend” people?
RATING SCALE FOR ASSESSING PERFORMANCE OF PRESENTATIONS
Name of Presenter:…………………………………………………………………..
Attribute Rating
Excellent (5) Good (4) So So (3) Poor (2) Bad (1)
01. Correctness of Language
02. Clarity of words
03. Clarity of thought
04. Logical sequence of
ideas
05. Speed
06. Audibility
07. Voice modulation
08. Use of pauses
09. Body posture
10. Facial Expression
11.Eye contact with
audience
12. Gestures
13. Mannerisms (Visual &
Vocal)
14. Confidence
15. Manners
HOW MUCH IS YOUR TIME WORTH?
Annual Salary
Overhead
Benefits
Your Staff Salaries
Their Ovhd & Benefits
TOTAL
52 Weeks
(Rs/hr)
45 hrs/week
CAUSES OF TIME MISMANAGEMENT
Procrastination: The world procrastinate comes from the latin word for ‘tomorrow’.
Procrastination can be defined as intentionally, habitually, and without good reason,
putting off things that should be done now. Procrastination is the world’s number one timewaster.
Poor Delegation: Delegation means entrusting a task to another person, together with the
authority to do it. Delegation is a gift of trust which will generate an answering trust. Both
parties will benefit from good delegation. Poor delegation arises from a lack of trust. If you
don’t entrust the other person with enough work to do, or you check everything they do too
carefully, you are a poor delegator.
Organized Workplace: If you don’t have a properly organized workplace you can waste
time trying to find the information you need to get your work done. Looking for a missing
file is a good example of non value-added time!
Wasting Your Peak Time: You should do your hardest tasks when you are at your peak
energy level.
Working Without Goals: If you don’t have goals, you can’t set priorities. If you can’t set
priorities you will mismanage time.
DO NOT WORK HARD
But work ‘smart’. Working ‘smart’ means organizing yourself so that you invest your time
only in value-added activities. These are activities which contribute toward achieving your
goals and objectives.
There are three types of demand on your time:
Planning : is organizing
Doing : is carrying out the plan as decided
Interacting : is working with other people
Your time
Planning Doing Interacting
What is your style?
Plus – You are strong
Minus- You need improvement
Tick your style
You are a Plus Time Manager
If you had two or more pluses
Planning Doing Interacting Style
+ + + You are a balanced person
+ + _ You do your own things well
_ + + You do others’ Priorities well
+ _ + You have good intentions but no
work done
You are a Minus Time Manager
If you had two or more Minuses
Planning Doing Interacting Style
+ _ _ Unrealistic Dreamer
_ + _ You are on a tread mill
_ _ + Delightful Person but incompetent
_ _ _ Neither delightful nor competent
An Inch of gold cannot buy an inch of time.
Planning Doing Interacting
Plus Minus Plus Minus Plus Minus
Urgent Not Urgent
I
•= Crises
•= Pressing problems
•= Deadline-driven projects,
meetings preparations
II
•= Preparation
•= Prevention
•= Values clarification
•= Planning
•= Relationship building
•= True re-creation
•= Empowerment
III
•= Interruptions, some phone
calls
•= Some mail, some reports
•= Some meetings
•= Many proximate, pressing
matters
•= Many popular activities
IV
•= Trivia, busywork
•= Junk mail
•= Some phone calls
•= Time wasters
•= “Escape” activities
TIME CHEATERS & BEATERS
Time cheaters come in all shapes and sizes. They can be physical and mental, created by you or imposed
upon you by other people. The important thing is to become aware of them and then you can earn to deal
with them.
Time Cheater Is this me? Time Beater
I spend too much time talking to
people who won’t go away
Learn to be firm, say I don’t
mean to be rude but I must get on
with my work
I get side tracked easily and lack
self discipline
Make action plans, stick to them
and reward yourself for good time
keeping
My colleagues/friends interrupt
me all the time.
Set aside times when you don’t
want to be disturbed.
I take on too much work Learn to say “No” politely but
firmly.
Time runs out! I am always
rushed and late
When you make your plans,
allow extra time for unexpected
surprises!
I get panicky and try to do
everything at once.
Prioritise!
I spend ages looking for letters
and files
You need to organize your work
space. Use filing and sorting
systems.
Staff interrupt with questions
about work I have assigned.
Learn to delegate effectively
I spend too much time in meetings
that don’t accomplish anything
Learn about conducting
effectively meetings.
INSTITUTE OF MANAGEMENT IN GOVERNMENT
THIRUVANANTHAPURAM
TRAINING MODULE ON PERSONALITY
DEVELOPMENT
READING MATERIAL
Sponsored by
Department of Personnel & Training
Government of India
&
United Nation's Development Programme
Prepared by
Dr.Chandraprasad Sreedhar, IMG, Trivandrum
&
Mr.Oommen Mathew, IMG, Kochi
CONTENTS
Page Number
1. Leadership 1
2. Interpersonal Relations 11
3. Communication in Organizations 23
4. Stress Management 32
5. Group Dynamics and Team Building 51
6. Conflict Management 58
7. Performance Appraisal 64
8. Time Management 77
9. Motivation 87
LEADERSHIP
Leadership is an integral part of management and plays a vital role in managerial operations. If there
is any single factor that differentiates between successful and unsuccessful organizations, it could be
considered as dynamic and effective leadership. Perhaps, it would be a valid assumption to state that the
major cause of most business failures would be ineffective leadership. All managers, in a way, are business
leaders, even though management primarily relies on formal position power to influence people whereas
leadership stems from a social influence process. However, management is an integral component of
technical as well as social processes.
A question which many a novice in Management ask and experts echo is whether “Manager” and
“Leader” are synonymous terms. Are the functions of the ‘Manager’ the same as those of the Leader? Are the
two roles the same? Or, are they different? If they are – are there or rather aren’t there areas of functional
similarities? To what extent do they differ in direction and/or magnitude?
Before attempting to answer the million dollar question “Are all leaders managers or are all managers
leaders? It will be prudent to clarify the concepts of leadership and management.
An extremely simplistic yet profoundly meaningful definition of leadership states it as the
“Phenomenon of one person influencing the thinking or action or both of another person or groups of
persons”.
Management has been defined in various ways by different authors. In fact, there exists almost as
many definitions for management as there are authors on the topic. There is neither the scope nor the need to
examine the various definitions of management in this discussion. However, two of them may be considered.
One of the earliest universally accepted definitions of management considered it as the “process of getting
things done through and by people”. One of the modern definitions of management describes it as “the
process of ensuring effectiveness and efficiency in achieving goals or objectives”.
From the above discussion, it is clear that whenever one influences the thinking or action or both of
another person or a group, he/she is a leader and the phenomenon of leadership exists. This is so irrespective
of what the “influence” aims or achieves. Even if the followers are “influenced” for some antisocial activities,
the phenomenon involved is leadership and the one exhibiting it is a leader. Managers have to influence their
“people” for achieving organizational objectives, which, we assume, to be morally right and legally straight.
So, all managers have a leadership role to play. But all that every leader does may not be very “Managerial”.
In short, all managers are leaders, but all leaders need not necessarily be managers. It should be remembered
that this statement is made considering the roles of “leaders” and “managers” and not with reference to any
individual with a managerial title or acceptance as a leader.
Categories of leaders: Based on the functions they perform, leaders can be classified into:
(i) Entrepreneurial
(ii) Administrative and
(iii) Political
(i) Entrepreneurial Leaders: As the term indicates, these are leaders who build organizations, these
institution builders perform the tasks of initiation and structuring. They organize the required
resources and put them in to effective and efficient use to create institutions of various sizes, nature
and scope eg. Trade unions, hospitals, schools, colleges, places of worship, cultural organizations etc.
Entrepreneurial leaders are highly motivated self starters who can get along reasonably well with a
wide range of people with whom they can co-operate and from whom they can get co-operation. They
will not be dispirited with setbacks and will not take “no” for an answer.
(ii) Administrative leaders: These are leaders whose performance will be at its peak when they are put in
charge of running organizations they work for the maintenance and growth of the organizations, they
plan, organize, staff, direct and control the organizations which may be expected to “safe” in their
hands. They ensure that right men occupy right positions and that tasks are carried out effective and
efficiently. They undertake environmental scanning and do SWOT (Strengths, Weaknesses,
Opportunities and Threats) analysis, based on which they define and redefine the mission of their
organizations, set targets and objectives and formulate policies and strategies. They have a clear idea
of what the organization should be at present and where it should be in the future.
(iii) Political leaders: By “political leaders” are meant those who act as representatives or spokesmen of
their groups and strive for the redressal of the grievances of their groups in general and its members in
particular. Many of them act on an ‘ad hoc’ basis not being very visible normally but appearing on the
scene all of a sudden when a problem crops up, the tackling of which requires their attention. They
may even leave the scene once the issue has been settled.
Discussion on Leader Categories:
In every individual, all kinds of leadership skills may be present but their relative concentrations vary.
The implication for the top management is that organizational success depends on allocating tasks and
responsibilities to individuals based on their talents and capabilities. The message for the individual is that
one should identify where his/her predominant leadership skills lie and as far as possible try to seek tasks
which are in tune with them. When there is little scope for choosing tasks in accordance with ones leadership
endowments, developing skills required for the tasks at hand become imperative.
Leadership Styles
Based on “how” a leader performs his/her tasks, various leadership styles can be identified, viz.
authoritarian
(i) - autocratic
paternalistic
(ii) - democratic
(iii) - laissez faire (free rein)
The basis for the above classification is two fold, viz.,
(i) - mode of decision making
(ii) - manner of implementation
(i) Autocratic leadership style : As the term suggests, this is a leader-centred style where followers are
reduced to insignificance. The autocratic leadership style itself has two variations, viz., authoritarian
and paternalistic.
(a) Authoritarian Leadership Style : The authoritarian leader takes all decisions by himself/herself
and will try to implement them even resorting to the use of force or coercion. The authoritarian
leader is only concerned about the “tasks” but not the “people” with whom the tasks have to be
achieved. If his/her followers/subordinates approach him/her with a problem, they face in
implementing the leaders decisions or carrying out his/her orders, the leader takes the stand, I
am not bothered about your problems. You …………… expedite and report”.
(b) Paternalistic leadership style: Leaders who exhibit this style assume the parental role for
themselves. They also take all decisions like the authoritarian leaders, but when it comes to
implementation they resort to tact and diplomacy rather than force and coercion. The
paternalistic leader considers his followers as immature children incapable of making decision
and needing about the task as well as the people. If subordinates approach a paternalistic leader
with their problems, they can expect empathic understanding and consideration. The
paternalistic leader may be expected to sit with the subordinates to sort out their proablems and
help them reach or identify solutions.
(ii) Democratic leadership style: The style of leadership which recognises and respects every member of
the group or team as an individual with capabilities, rights and responsibilities and a potential
contributor to the group processes including task achievements, is called democratic leadership style.
Where democratic leadership style is followed, decision making and implementation are consultative
and participative processes. It should be appreciated that the situation is not akin to one, where say, in
a group of w00, what 51 people suggest is accepted and the opinions and suggestions of the remaining
49 are rejected mercilessly. That at best be termed majocracy. Where democratic leadership style is
practised, one is free to express his/her opinions as everybody’s opinions and their right to express
them are respected. A member gets an opportunity to understand why his/her suggestions are not
accepted as the group’s decision, even when that is the case. The ultimate group decision is
everybody’s. When one had a say in the making of a decision, a high level of commitment may be
expected to be exhibited by the group members for its achievement.
(iii) Laissez faire or free rein leadership style: Whether one follows autocracy or democracy as a
leadership style, the leader will be performing the basic functions of providing direction and control to
the group. The autocratic and democratic leaders differ only in the manner in which they perform the
direction and control functions. Apart from this, there are leaders who follow a policy of “no
intervention” in group processes. Their style is called “Laissez faire” or “free rein”. There are
behavioural scientists who even object to considering this as “leadership” as the “leader” does not
discharge the basic functions of direction and control. However, one may find many in leadership
positions practising this style.
Discussion on Leadership Styles
To decide on the “best leadership style” one has to enumerate the merits and demerits of each, evaluate
their effectiveness and efficiency and more than anything else, see whether they deliver the goods”. Analysis
of the various leadership styles conclusively proves that there does not exist something as the “best”
leadership style. If there existed one, it should have proved successful under all circumstances. It can be
observed that different leadership styles produce the best results under different conditions and circumstances.
That which results in the most favourable and desirable outcome under any particular circumstances is the
“right” leadership style in that context. The success of the manager depends on his/her ability to identify the
“right” leadership style in that context. The success of the manager depends on his/her ability to identify the
“right” leadership style in any given situation and then exhibit enough flexibility and adaptability to practice
that style.
Sources of Leader Influence on Followers
What provides a leader with the capacity to influence followers? Why will subordinates respond to the
influence attempts of a leader by doing that the leader intends or wishes them to do? In other words, what is
the source of the leader’s power over subordinates? Five distinct sources of leader power or influence have
been identified. Any particular leader may have at his or her disposal any combination of these different
sources of power.
1. Reward Power refers to the leader’s capacity to reward followers. To the extent that a leader possesses
and controls rewards that are valued by subordinates, the leader’s power increases. Rewards at a
leader’s disposal fall into two categories. Rewards such as praise, recognition and attention are
sources of personal power possessed by the leader as an individual. In addition, a leader also usually
controls certain organizational rewards, such as pay raises, promotions and other perquisites. These
are sources of power that depend upon the leader’s position in the organization.
2. Coercive power is the flip side of reward power and refers to the leader’s capacity to coerce or punish
followers. Sources of coercive power also break down into personal and positional components.
Leaders personally possess coercive power to the extent that followers experience criticism or lack of
recognition from their leader as unpleasant or punishing. In addition, leaders possess coercive power
to the extent that their position permits them to administer organizational sources of punishment (such
as demotion, with holding of pay increases or firing) to followers.
3. Legitimate power refer to the power a leader possesses as a result of occupying a particular position or
role in the organization. In every organization, certain types of requests and directions issued by
leaders to subordinates are viewed to be legitimate and valid. Subordinates are obligated to comply
with such requests because of the norms, policies, and procedures accepted as legitimate by all
members of the organization. Legitimate power is clearly a function of the leader’s position in the
organization and is completely independent of any of the leader’s personal characteristics.
4. Expert power refers to power that a leader possesses as a result of his or her knowledge and expertise
regarding the tasks to be performed by subordinates. Subordinates are most likely to respond
positively to a leader’s attempts to influence their behaviour if they view the leader as a competent and
in possession of knowledge and information regarding effective task performance that they themselves
lack. The possession of expert power by a leader obviously depends upon the personal characteristics
of the leader (ie., his or her personal expertise) and is not determined by the formal position that the
leader occupies in the organization.
5. Referent power is dependent upon the extent to which subordinates identify with, look up to and wish
to emulate the leader. The more that subordinates admire and identify with the leaders, the greater the
leader’s referent power over subordinates. Referent power, like expert power, is totally dependent
upon the personal characteristics of the leader and does not depend directly upon the leader’s formal
organizational position.
Current Issues in Leadership
In addition to focusing on the different powers discussed above, leadership researchers have also
recently identified a number of new and important issues that deserve our attention.
Leadership as Mutual Influence
The very term leadership naturally serves to draw our attention to leaders themselves and focuses our
interest on the ways in which leaders influence their followers. As a result, research on leadership has tried to
understand how different types of leaders and different types of leader behaviours cause follower to react in
different ways.
An important contribution of recent research on leadership has been to point out the shortsightedness
of this view of leader-follower relations. While it is no doubt true that leaders can and do influence their
followers, it is also true that leaders and followers engage in interaction with one another, which necessarily
implies the existence of mutual influence. In other words, not only is it true that leaders influence followers,
but it is equally true that followers influence leaders.
Constraints on Leadership Behaviour
In thinking about leadership as mutual influence process we are taking in to account the fact that the
behaviour of subordinates has a casual influence upon the behaviour of the leader. In other words, leaders do
not decide how they are going to behave in total isolation from their subordinates. Leader must select and
adjust their leadership style in light of how their subordinates are performing and responding. But
acknowledging that the behaviour of subordinates can influence how leaders behave raises the question of
what other factors may be influencing and constraining what leaders do. In fact, it turns out that leaders are
far from totally free and unencumbered in choosing their leadership style.
Subordinate Behaviour
As was pointed out in our discussion of leadership as a mutual influence process, the evidence is quite
clear that the performance of subordinates has a critical casual impact upon that a leader does and how he or
she behaves toward followers.
Characteristics of Subordinates
In addition to what subordinates do and how they perform, other identifiable traits, or characteristics,
of subordinates may influence the leader’s behaviour as well as the behaviour of the subordinates themselves.
For example, a leader may behave differently toward males and females, older and younger people, and those
with similar as opposed to different personal backgrounds from his or her own.
Characteristics of the Leader
The leader’s abilities and personal characteristics obviously influence and constrain what the leader
does and how he or she behaves toward subordinates. On the ability side, task relevant knowledge and skill,
as well as supervisory skills and sensitivities, will have an important impact. In terms of trait, personality
characteristics such as assertiveness, dominance, and self-confidence all have an influence on leadership
behaviour.
Leaders Superiors
How leaders treat their subordinates is strongly influenced by how the leaders themselves are treated
by their own immediate superiors. Superiors serve both as role models for the leadership behaviour of
individuals toward their own subordinates and as sources of rewards and punishments. Leaders with
immediate superiors who preach, practice, and reward a participative management style, for example, are
unlikely to treat their subordinates in a directive and authoritarian fashion.
Leaders Peers
As in almost all thing, peers have an important influence upon how leaders behave. Peer pressure has
a potent homogenizing impact upon leadership behaviour in an organization. Other managers in an
organisation ar likely to exert both direct and indirect pressure on individual leaders to behave toward their
subordinates in a fashion that is consistent with that practised by other managers at that level in the
organisation.
Organizational Policies, Norms and Climate
Some organizations are characterised by a very open, democratic, and participative management style.
Such an organizational climate and policy ill obviously influence a leader to behave as a participative
manager. Very different leadership behaviours would be expected in an organization characterised by a very
closed and authoritarian policy of management.
Nature of Subordinates – Tasks
The nature of the tasks that subordinates are performing also influences the behaviour of leaders
toward subordinates. A very vague and ambiguous task such as developing the design of a new product from
scratch is bound to elicit different types of leadership behaviour than is a highly structured and routine task
such as producing a particular number of units on an assembly line.
INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS (TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS IN
MANAGEMENT: TOWARDS PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT)
Introduction
All of us are social beings and interact with others in the process of satisfying our human needs and
achieving our goals. In management, irrespective of your level, you have to interact with others – peers,
superiors and subordinates. And most importantly, in some organizations, with general public. You may have
to communicate with people of different sexes, ages, education, skills, personalities and temperaments.
Ability to understand the nature and dynamics of interactions with others will help an individual to become
more effective communicator – which means more positive respect for self better performance and
achievement of organizational goals, more satisfied and committed employees, effective relationships with
superiors and peers, more satisfied consumers or clients.
What is Transactional Analysis? What does T/A do? What does T/A not do? What are the dynamics
of T/A? How can I become more effective with the use of T/A?
What is Transactional Analysis?
“Transactional Analysis (T/A) is one of the tools developed by behavioural scientists which is used for
analysis of transactions” or understanding of communications that occur between people. It is a rational
approach to understanding behaviour and is based on the assumption that any person can learn to trust himself
or herself, think rationally, make independent decisions, and express feelings.
“Transactional Analysis” is a tool but also a complete theory of personality, containing techniques of
psychotherapy for personal and social growth. A “transaction” means any exchange or interaction that occurs
between two or more persons.
Transactional analysis concerns itself with the kinds of communication – both verbal and non-verbal –
that occur between people. The emphasis of Transactional Analysis is upon positive communication.
Transactional Analysis is widely utilised as a consultation method in educational programmes, social
institutions, business, hospitals, churches, government organizations, and other organizations. The late Eric
Berne, M.D., the principal innovator and developer of Transactional Analysis, began experimenting with his
ideas by applying them to group psychotherapy, but more recently it is widely used in family, couples and
individuals work.
What does Transactional Analysis do or not do?
Transactional Analysis increases understanding of self and others. It decreases tendency to be critical
of self and others. Transactional Analysis helps reduces stress, frustration and anxiety levels!
A few hours exposure to Transactional Analysis is not necessarily going to result in any person being
transformed in to a happy and an effective person. Transactional Analysis does not erase all human relations
difficulties. All emotional problems won’t be solved with a brief training period and traditional way of doing
things that may be non-productive. Lot will depend upon the trainer. There are several who present
themselves as experts. These people do more harm than good. Many companies have successfully
incorporated Transactional Analysis training in to their overall personnel development programmes. These
organizations represent private and public sector industries. State Governments, police systems, educational
institutions, municipalities, and professional associations. The benefit which an organization derives from
Transactional Analysis are better process diagnosis; clearer problem analysis; reduced non-communication:
new tools for selecting people for entry and promotion; and less psychological pollution.
Structural Analysis
According to Transactional Analysis theory, everyone’s personality has three parts, called ego states.
These ego states are named Parent, Adult, and Child. When we capitalize these words, we are talking about
ego states rather than real parents, adults or children. Structural analysis involves analyzing the personality to
discover the nature of our ego states. You can use structural analysis to better understand who you are and
how you got that way. It will help you learn about the various sources of thoughts, feelings and opinions in
your personality. Knowing your personality better can add to your effectiveness on the job.
i) The Parent Ego State
Every one develops a Parent ego state when as children they absorb certain attitudes and ways of
behaving from parental figures. When you feel, think, or act as you saw your parents (or other
authority figures) act when you were little, you are in your Parent ego state. While in your Parent, you
may act in either a controlling, sometimes critical way or in a nurturing, sometimes loving way. Here
are some examples of statements you are likely to make while in your Parent.
- Controlling Parent: “Nobody can leave until this report is finished”
- Nurturing Parent: “I’m sorry you’re not feeling well today. Would you like to go over to the
nurse’s office and get some help? I’ll take care of your station”.
While in our Parent we respond automatically almost as if a tape recording were playing in our heads
and directing our words and actions. For this reason, we often use the phrase “Parent tapes” to refer to:
- dialogue from Parent figures stored in our heads, and
- automatic responses we make while in our Parent ego state
ii) The Adult Ego State
Although we respond automatically when in our Parent, we respond analytically when in our Adult.
Whenever you are gathering information, reasoning things out, estimating probabilities, and so on, you
are in your Adult ego state. While in this ego state you are cool and collected: you make decisions
unemotionally. You just want the facts. The Adult ego state has nothing to do with age. Little
children have Adult ego states too! For example, when four-year-old Kristi says, “I bet Jeff is home –
I see his car,” she is using her budding Adult, since she is calmly estimating probabilities on the basis
of facts.
iii) The Child Ego State
Yes, even though you’re an adult, you have a Child inside you. While in your Child ego state, you feel
and act like the little person you once were. Your Child has all of the feelings and impulses of a
newborn. It also includes your mental recordings of your:
- early experiences
- reactions to these experiences, and
- learned view of yourself and other people
Free or Natural Child (FC or NC)
This is the source of our spontaneity, energy and curiosity, with all our potential for life. It represents
the way we are when we are born – natural, loving, carefree, adventurous and trusting – with all our capacities
for leading a joyful and meaningful existence. This part of us knows no rules and consequently operates
without regard for others and is unconcerned about their reactions. Witness the behaviour of the twelvemonth-
old exploring its environment! Of course, it would be impossible to maintain the structure of a society
on such a basis, and without some adaptations.
In fact, in many grown-ups the adaptations are so extensive that they rarely use their Free Child. Some
examples of the expression of the Free Child in an organization are: the joy of a major breakthrough in
research and the fun at an office party (alcohol first ‘strips away’ the Parent, then the Adult!).
Adapted Child
As suggested, it does not seem possible to live in a continuous Free Child state and live with other
people at the same time. From an early age, we make adaptations to help us get along with and get attention
from authority figures, most notably our own parents. Some of these may develop in line with general
practice in our society, eg., specific modes of eye and body contact; saying ‘please’, ‘thank you’ and ‘sorry’ at
the appropriate times; not making personal comments about others in public.
Note how uncomfortable we often feel with those who have not adapted to these culturally agreed
ways of behaving. Many more adaptations are unique to the particular family and its situation, and are
important in marking us out as individuals. Some examples that create problems in adulthood and are relevant
to organizations are compliance, procrastination and rebellion.
Compliance
Some individuals learn when they are young that the way to get along is always to say ‘yes’. Their
problem in adulthood is saying ‘yes’ when their better judgement, experience and knowledge suggests that
arguing the point and asserting themselves would be more appropriate. Some personal and organizational
disasters might have been avoided if some people had not been so compliant in the past. (Of course, some
people in power want nothing better than for others to do exactly what they are told!)
Procrastination
Some people learn when they are young that a good way to get attention is to procrastinate. Consider
these examples from family life:
‘C’mon, get a move on, or we’ll miss the shops!’
‘Look, put that doll down, tie your shoe laces up and let’s get going.
You’re making us late again!’
If a child decides on this basis that delaying gets attention, in adulthood the individual may still be
indulging in this behaviour. Certainly, being late is a good way to get attention in organizations (albeit
negative) and it may use up more energy, money and time than it is worth (clock cards, counselling
interviews, disciplinary interviews etc). Flexitime is no guarantee of cure.
Rebellion
Many children only get attention when they are ‘naughty’. Such individuals in adulthood may
continue this behaviour by seeking bosses and/or institutions (eg., banks, local government, the police) to
constantly fight and rebel against.
Little Professor
Another functional aspect of the Child ego state is frequently introduced and used, although its
relationship to the other two is unclear. This is the Little Professor, the intuitive part of us that senses things
about other people in a flash. This part of us has those brilliant, non-logical insights giving us solutions to
problems that typify some of the major breakthrough in the growth of scientific knowledge.
Transactions and its Analysis
Transactional analysis is related with the way in which individuals interact with each other. It explains
the mechanism that takes place when people are having conversation or are trying to exchange their thoughts,
feelings and ideas with each other. Thus, Transactional Analysis essentially refers to the analysis of
interactions between people. According to Transactional Analysis, transactions is stimulus plus response
(S+R). If two or more people encounter each other, sooner or later one of them will speak, or give some other
indication of acknowledging the presence of the others. This is called the “transactional stimulus”. Another
person will then say or do something which is in some way related to the stimulus, and that is called
transaction response. Transactional Analysis involves the study of the social transactions between people and
it deals with determining which part of the multiple-natured individual is being activated Parent, Adult or
Child.
Transactions and its Types
Normally there are three types of transactions:
(1) Complementary Transactions;
(2) Crossed Transactions;
(3) Ulterior Transactions:
(a) Duplex;
(b) Angular
(i) Complementary Transactions
A transaction is complementary when communication continues on parallel lines between individuals
and the lines of stimulus and response are parallel. Thus, the message transmitted from one ego-state elicits an
expected and appropriate response from the proper ego-state of the other individual. The transactions are
complementary because both are acting in the perceived and expected ego-states. Usually, in such a case, both
individuals are satisfied, everyone feels OK and the communication is complete.
Complementary transactions can take place between A-A, P-C, P-P and so on.
(ii) Crossed Transactions
The lines of stimulus and Response cross each other in case of crossed transactions. Whenever the
stimulus and response cross on the P-A-C transactional diagram, communication stops. Transactions become
uncomplimentary. The message sent by one ego-state is responded to from an incompatible, unexpected egostate
of another person. The inappropriate response generates feelings of hurt and anger and the individuals,
instead of coming closer, divert from each other. Crossed transactions are the source of much interpersonal
conflict in an organisation. They inhibit free flow of ideas, free thinking, creativity and social interactions.
Crossed transactions have many possible dysfunctional consequences for the organisation.
(iii) Ulterior Transactions
The ulterior type of transactions are most complex because the communication has double meaning as
more than ego-states are involved in them. When ulterior message is sent, the literal and intent meanings are
not one and the same. Ulterior message is often disguised in a socially acceptable way. On the surface level,
the communication has a clear Adult message, whereas it carries a hidden message on the psychological level.
Ulterior transactions like crossed transactions are undesirable as they damage interpersonal relationships.
Strokes
You’ve seen that transactions can be open, blocked, or ulterior. It’s also important to recognize that
whenever two people are transacting, they are exchanging “strokes”. What are strokes? To help you
understand that term, let’s look at an important discovery made by Rene Spitz. Spitz found that keeping
infants fed and in a clean environment was not enough. Such infants became weak and almost seemed to
shrivel up if they were not cuddled and stroked. Infants who are touched very little may become physically
and mentally retarded; those not touched at all seem to “give up” and die. Before Spitz discovered this,
doctors often puzzled at the high death rate in orphanage nurseries. Today in such nurseries “grandmothers”
and “grandfathers” volunteer to come in and just cuddle infants.
In Transactional Analysis language, the term “stroke” refers to the giving of some kind of recognition
to a person. This may or may not involve physical touching. As we grow from infancy into childhood and
then adulthood, we do not entirely lose our need for stroking. Part of our original need for physical stroking
seems to be satisfied with symbolic stroking. We no longer need constant cuddling, but we still need
attention. When we receive a stroke, we may choose to feel either good or bad. If we choose to feel good, we
might think of the stroke as a “warm fuzzy” (or positive stroke). On the flip side, if we choose to feel bad, we
can think of it as a “cold prickly” (or negative stroke).
Since we have a basic need for strokes, we will work hard to get them. For example, ignored children
will engage in all sorts of creative acts to get stroked. Often such children quickly learn that they can get
strokes by:
- talking in a loud, whiny, high-pitched voice,
- spilling milk on a clean table cloth, and
- injuring themselves
A child who carries out one of these actions is likely to get a cold prickly (negative stroke). But it
seems to make no difference to a stroke-deprived child. To such a child, any kind of stroke is better than none
at all: a cold prickly is better than nothing! The same is true for adults who work in a stroke-deprived
environment.
Example
Lennie, a shipping clerk in a small mail-order firm, worked alone. Yet he got a lot of strokes from
Kevin, his supervisor. Kevin often stopped by Lennie’s work station just to chat. These strokes were not
usually given for any particular job performance since Lennie’s job was rather routine and didn’t require any
special skills. However, Kevin did compliment Lennie for his consistent performance.
Then one day Kevin was promoted. Lennie’s new supervisor, Laura, had a different approach. She
didn’t stop to chat with her subordinates and spoke to them only when she was dissatisfied with their work.
Life positions
Another way of looking at relationships between people is through the concept of ‘life position’,
sometimes referred to as the basic position or existential position. A person’s life position at any given time
expresses in some way just how that individual is relating to others in terms of thinking, feeling and behaving.
There are four basic life positions, shown below referred to as the OK corral.
OK Corral
I’m not OK I’m OK
You’re OK You’re OK
I’m not OK I’m OK
You’re not OK You’re not OK
Examples of Life Positions
The idea of life positions can be demonstrating the following examples.
1. ‘Hey, we did a good job there’, says the boss.
‘Yes, things ar really going well for us now’, says the subordinate
(I’m OK, you’re OK)
2. ‘Your work is not up to the standard I need in this department!’ says the boss
(I’m OK, you’re not OK)
3. ‘I wish I could keep on top of things the way you can’, says the subordinate
(I’m not OK, you’re OK)
4. ‘Well, I don’t know what to do and you don’t know what to do. What a mess!’ says the boss.
(I’m not OK, you’re not OK)
Characteristics of the Life Positions
I’M OK, YOU’RE OK (I + U+)
This is sometimes referred to as the get on with position. People occupying this position are
optimistic, confident and happy about work and life. They use time constructively, doing the things they most
want to. They exchange strokes freely with those they meet, accepting the significance of other people, and
decline to put themselves or others down. They are assertive in reaching their aims, ie., they state and
elaborate their own views and needs rather than attack other people’s views and needs. Their dominant
working style with others is collaboration and mutual respect, sharing authority and responsibility and
listening constructively, even if they disagree. The problems they encounter in work and life are faced and
dealt with as constructively as possible. They are likely to ‘succeed’ in life within the limits they’ve set
themselves, finding satisfaction with work and relationships, and tend to live long, healthy lives.
I’M OK, YOU’RE NOT OK (I+ U-)
This is sometimes referred to as the get rid of position. It is characterised by feelings of anger, fury
and hostility. Others are seen as inferior, unworthy, incompetent, wrong and not to be trusted. Behaviour to
others is characterised by such things as spite, victimisation, trapping, condescension, abuse and disregard.
They may devote much time to the destruction of the sense of self-worth of others. As well as putting others
down, they over-inflate their own self-worth, deny personal problems and find it difficult to give positive
strokes. At work they are highly competitive and climb over others at whatever cost to achieve power and
status. In wider social terms this is the life position of those who exploit their fellow man, or of those who
take dogmatic views, believing theirs to be the only right course. In extreme cases they are homicidal (You
are so “not OK”, there’s no point to your living’)
I’M NOR OK, YOU’RE OK (I- U+)
This is referred to as the get away from position and is typified by feelings such as sadness,
inadequacy, stupidity or a sense of being ugly. In this position, people experience themselves as inferior or
powerless in relation to others. They put themselves down and find it difficult to accept positive strokes, even
being suspicious of them. In relation to work, they undervalue their potential and skills and they avoid or
withdraw from difficult situations and problems. In life generally, they don’t succeed, are unhappy, often ill
and/or depressed and in extreme cases commit suicide (I’m so useless I may as well not live’)
I’M NOT OK, YOU’RE NOT OK (I- U-)
This is also referred to as the get nowhere position and is accompanied by feelings of confusion or
aimlessness and pointlessness. Their attitude is ‘Why bother, what’s the point?’ and they frequently waste
time. They do nothing very much in life, and in extreme cases become alcoholics or drug addicts, or go crazy,
possibly committing murder or suicide.
Reference
E.Berne, Games People Play, Grove Press Inc., 1964; Penguin, 1968.
Barker D, TA and Training, Gower Publishing Company Ltd., 1982.
COMMUNICATION IN ORGANIZATIONS
Organizations, large and small, commercial and not-for-profit, religious and educational – are all
structured to facilitate the achievement of objectives. The communication process in an organization connects
superiors, subordinates, members of the peer group and the external environment. The top man’s job is almost
solely communication as he has the main task of linking and relating the organization with the environment.
In the absence of communication, human beings will have to exist as individuals never benefiting from
the sharing of emotions, experiences, knowledge etc. Without communication, which has undisputed primary
in the affairs of human race, man will not be able to unit to overcome limitations and ensure achievements.
Communication involves the transfer or rather exchange of ideas, information, understanding, feelings,
emotions etc. between individuals. It can be defined as “who says what and why to whom through which
channel with what effect”. Though this is a reasonably comprehensive definition of communication, it is a
process oriented one. It should be stated in this context that the concept of communication is common
understanding between the involved parties – whom we shall refer to as the Sender and Receiver – about what
is being communicated which we shall term as Message. “Message” may denote anything ranging from ideas
to data to statistics to emotions and feelings.
The Importance of Communication
Studies have been conducted on the amount of time spent on communication by people from different
walks of life. It is found that the group that has to spend least time for the process of communication is the
shop floor level workers in manufacturing organizations. Even in their case, 40 to 60% of time is spent on
communication. As a person’s position in the organizational echelon is higher and higher, the time required to
be spent on communication is more and more. The head of any organization may be expected to spend more
than 80% of his/her time on some form of communication or the other. What this means is that how
effectively, efficiently, creatively and productively that person communicates will decide his overall
effectiveness, efficiency, creativity and productivity to a corresponding extent. The communication process in
any organization is so vital for the achievement of its objectives. How a communication system is managed in
an organization ie., how effective it is, has a profound impact on the ultimate effectiveness of the total
organization.
Numerous studies have confirmed the impact of communication, organizational productivity,
efficiency and effectiveness. In one such study, the reasons for wide variations in productivity among twenty
seven branches of a package – delivery organization, were explored. As part of the study communication data
were collected from the 975 employees from the branches. Comparison of productivity and communication
data revealed positive correlation between high performance and open communication between superiors and
subordinates.
In a survey conducted among nearly a hundred business organizations with the objective of
determining how much of top management has to say is actually understood, the following facts were
revealed.
1. At the vice presidential level managers understand about two thirds of what they hear from the top
2. At the general supervisor level managers understand 56 per cent of the top level information.
3. At the manager level managers perceive only 40 per cent.
4. Foremen perceive 30 per cent
5. Persons on the production line understand 20 per cent
The above findings throw light on the need and potential for management for improving
communication skills.
The ABCs of Communication
Like any other process, communication also has its ABCs and it is interesting to note
that the ABCs of communication are:
A - Attractiveness
B - Brevity
C - Clarity
The Process of Communication
Whatever is being communicated is called ‘Message’. The person from whom the
message originates – the one who initiates the process of communication – is called the
Sender. The person for whom the communication is meant is called the Receiver.
Communication cannot take place in a vaccum. It has to have a medium or channel. After
receiving the message the ‘Receiver’ will react or respond to the sender when provision for
that exists. This part of the communication process may be termed Feedback. When there is
no provision for ‘Receiver to Sender Feedback’, it may be called one-way communication.
This, in most cases, may increase the distortion between the intended message and the one that
is received. There are various barriers to effective communication which may affect the
process at any stage and they can be collectively designated by the term ‘NOISE’. The
following model will illustrate the process of communication.
NOISE NOISE NOISE
FEEDBACK
NOISE
Communication Categories
Based on the presence or absence of two important attributes of communication viz., effectiveness and
impressiveness, all communication can be grouped in to one of the following categories:
SENDER MESSAGE MEDIUM RECEIVER
- Effective and Impressive
- Effective but Unimpressive
- Ineffective but Impressive
- Ineffective and Unimpressive
Needless to mention, the best of the above lot is the first category and the last one is the worst. It
should be one’s aim to make his/her communication effective and attribute each is present while the other is
lacking. If a choice is to be made between the second and third categories, definitely the preference must be
for the second one. In other words, if we have to prioritize, effectiveness has primacy.
Barriers to Effective Organizational Communication
There are many barriers that can impede the process of communication resulting in a communication
breakdown. Some of the common barriers to effective communication are described below. However, it
should be remembered that the list is not exhaustive.
(i) Transmission Alterations: This refers to the changes that the original message undergoes when it
passes through various people. The greater the differences between the people involved with respect to
various factors like cultural background, social class, educational level, age group, experience etc. the
greater will be the alterations that the message undergoes. One effective way to overcome the barrier –
or at least reduce its ill effects – would be to ask the receiver to repeat what he/she has understood.
This will provide the sender with an opportunity make corrections to the perceived message if found
necessary. When one has the role of the receiver and if the sender is not making any effort on the lines
suggested above, the receiver may take the initiative for making the required clarification.
(ii) Physical Limitations: The difference between perception and reality may be termed perceptual error.
Our sensory limitations – those of sight, sound, touch, taste and smell-restrict perceptual clarity.
(iii) Inattention: This is related to the receiver, care should be taken to give proper attention to the
message. When in sender’s role, one should start communicating only after ensuring required level of
attention on the part of the receivers. Despite physical proximity with the sender, the receiver’s level
of attention may come down or his/her thoughts may take side excursions while the sender is talking.
The sender should recognize this as a natural and normal phenomenon and make efforts to regain
receivers’ attention at periodic intervals.
(iv) Selective Listening: When receivers tend to “block out” information, especially when it is
contradictory to what one believes, it results in selective perception. It is a common practice for
people to ignore or distort information that conflicts with ones prescribed notions.
(v) Mistrust of the Source: Over a period of time, we develop various levels of trust, confidence or faith
in the words of the sender. It may be termed source credibility. To be an effective communicator, one
should develop himself/herself as a credible source of information.
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